Love is life, and life unfolds in a zillion ways, sometimes we enjoy its ways, other times we endure those ways! But through the rough and soft edges we are living and being alive is a privilege, but what s the point of living if you can’t feel the rush of blood running through your veins? To take pleasure in existence we have to be the artist and the piece of art at the same time, and to be able to achieve that, goal we need to allow ourselves to flourish from our flower buds, the metamorphosis of the spirit, the transformation of the heart, the conversion of our being through trial and error, through experiencing the tides of our emotional patterns.
We all want to love and be loved, to know that what we do or do not do matters to someone in the world, we must sense that attention poured into the chalice of our character in order to quench that thirst and that leaning a heart inclines to when feeding his magnetism towards a heart that dances to its rhythm.
But it so happens that many times we fall in love with the wrong person over and over again so we start to blame ourselves and feel ashamed of our judgment, and we feel guilty of not using our reason, and we decide and curse the heart and his methods, we declare war and we build up a defense so we can have a safe zone where no one would hurt us again, or we become bitter and we decide to punish our emotions and we become victim of our own weaknesses.
The wrong person is never wrong, because he teaches us and helps us reach deep underneath our psychological layers, to uncover the veil of our hidden treasures, he contributes in forming our being in preparation for the right person in the right timing! We inform and transform through the flood of experiences we embark on in our love adventure and journey,
Do not plan or put labels or predicate what you want in the right person, the universe works in a spontaneous way, you can find your lost love where you least expect it and in the most odd place you never even thought of!
Just live and accept what occurs with you, every person you meet shapes your identify and you carry bits and pieces of each person you met, there is no wrong person there is just the wrong person during that specific time, for when the fruit is mature it falls naturally to the grounds without even putting an effort to grab and pull it out!
Focus on what‘s ahead, do not dwell in the cities of the past where the spiders have woven their webs on past events, instead make your present, the focal point and build your castles in the now and here land; a person is always a gain even if he breaks your heart or your faith, because when you lose you gain the wisdom and the lesson, you cannot learn and renovate your skin in any other way.
Joy sharpens your sense and makes you see the world with beautiful fresh eyes every day, but it is the sorrow that educates and elevates our existence to a higher state where the truth is reflected.
Never regret loving someone regardless whether or not that person was worthy of that love, you did what you did out of love and that alone should make you rise above and beyond their wicked hearts and poisoned kisses. Never let anyone take away what is divine about you, never let anyone rob your ability to love for the sake of love , be who you are in spite of not because of and you will never suffer a broken heart only a distant memory you wished to hold on to for a longer time.
Do not lock up yourself in narrow minded ideas and prejudices, practice understanding, consent to the sudden flashes in your life, you heart knows primitively what your mind studies and observes with time and knowledge.
There will always be a crush somewhere along the line, this should never stop you from leaning on the same ground you fell on in order to get up again and continue your quest for a love that can hear and sing your song with you in perfect harmony!
Lina Hanna Hanna.
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