We all know the famous saying “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me”…Every one of us has been deceived at some point of his life, we all bear that scar deep within our souls, and because nothing in the world can match the pain we feel when we lose our self esteem and self image for the person who deceived us we start to punish ourselves for we feel responsible for putting ourselves out there and for giving someone a trust that is raped, used and abused! But often we get so angry after an emotional fraud where someone makes us think and feel like we are the center of his universe, like we are his oxygen, that our presence in his life is crucial only to find out he was after something , what a blood sucker he is that small hearted person, that insignificant half of a human being who lies in sincerity to we can believe in his deceit!
He is a flesh eating virus of true love and faith in another human heart, he is the parasite that lives on our emotional dispenses so he consumes us splurging on our passionate banquet until he is about to explode but he is unable of giving back even the smallest spark of affection or even respect for what is he feeding off!
We are usually betrayed the most when we put someone in very high and different rate on our relationship scale, or our favorite persons list , when we admire someone to the point we think of him as more of a god and less of a human, and then he just shows his true color in testing situation where he ceases to shine and starts to fade into black, when he no longer feels our pain, we suddenly our cry out for help is muted and silenced in his ears, when our absence is no longer noticed but rather filled up with the presence of someone else, when our anguish is a turn off to his excitement and joy of life, then and only then we lose the illusion and we gain a truth that will make us wiser and harder to fool!
Deception is an eye opener, a slap in the face for those soft hearted easily duped persons, those who own a big heart, those who give from their souls and the core of their beings to the little tiny souls who are as far away from their own selves as it can be, those who are mediocre in giving, those who are self treacherous, those who are strangers to anything that is noble , those who are dwarfs in their dignity, those who will be spitted from the womb of respect, murders of hope, assassins of dreams, robbers of trust and molesters of true love, they distort the sweet music of confidence and assurance, they never provide or offer , they only receive , take and ask for more.
Never lose the lesson when you lose someone you never had! Allow your deception to transform you and use that same deception to rise above your pain. Never become a deceiver once you are deceived, but fight your anger and conquer your need to hurt when you are hurt! Never lose your faith in good people for they exist and they are worthy of your trust but like anything of great value it is rare to find but it sure is worth the waiting and the searching for its discovery!
Always watch out of those who will give you false gifts, fake feelings, pseudo relationships, sellers of illusions; they live near to the ground with the worms , like those spine-chilling insects they creep into your life, inhabit your world and feed from your being, they get nourished from your starvation , they are insensitive , they are monsters in disguise , beware of them, and if they ever find their way into your heart, be cautious and stay on alert less they attack your safety zones and make you vulnerable to their sweet talking ways and manipulative methods, if you fall into their trap, try to save yourself and learn to be more vigilant in the matters of your heart and who enters to your most sacred intimate place on earth!
Lina Hanna Hanna.
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