Social Masquerades & charades

Our true color … the real face we show when we unmask and take off the fake visage we wear when we are out in the social realms…

Lina Hanna Hanna.

playing our games and being who we are not sacrificing who we genuinely are in favor for a so called” acceptance” from others… we show them the face they want to see and sacrifice the face we know ourselves through when we look at our own reflection in the mirror..

We love to feel wanted, we want to belong to a circle, we seek to” fit in” inside the comfort society of similarities… differences are nice so long as they are kept away and safe from mingling in building our relationships with others.

There was a poet who once said if everyone knew what his” friends” say behind his back no one would have kept their bonds with one another… how far does this charade has to go? How faraway are we from stepping out of the crowd and being genuinely different than being similar replicas?

Let me tell you one thing, whoever does not accept you and want you the way you are, with your true color even if this color does not match or appear on his sphere of colors, that person is not definitely not worthy of your time, nor your heart nor any exchange of thoughts and dreams with you, and you are way better off alone.

Do not give up your true identity and individuality for the sake of being someone you are not, just to be one of the cattle and one with the cattle.

Embrace your differences even if it meant you will have less so called companions, they are enemies undercover, waiting for your first fall just so that can enjoy and take pleasure in the depth of your crack, that is if of course if they are not the ones who pushed you down into it ….

Never compromise yourself… your distinctiveness, for it is because of them that you are who you are, and you are not a copy of another version of someone else…

Not anything in life has the merit to make you wear your mask and walk in the masquerade of existence just so you can feel that you obey the rules and they you are accepted for you are not accepted for who you are but for who you should be to please everyone except the one and only person that you should worry about pleasing and that is “YOURSELF” …

Love yourself and don’t play by the social set of rules… play your own game live through your body and your mind as well not in your body with a mind that is handed over ready for you to wear and function mechanically … you are unique, what sets you apart from others is what makes you stunning …

Find a common ground just never live on somebody else’s ground , you and you alone know what and where and how and why you do what you do , or you act in the manner you act, you are your own friend and enemy at the same time… you are the world you strive to be adhesive to, you can find that bonding agent you look for with the right kind of persons , these persons will never let you wear their colors or invite you to live on their grounds they will push you and set you in your own motion towards your territory , your element where it is okay and nice and accepted to be you and they will even celebrate your uniqueness with you…

Drop your disguise; be free; crash down your collective camouflage and you will sure come out and be discerned for who you are, your true colors will shine and be as bright as ever…